Once upon a time, I was trying so hard to make a relationship work. It was a long distance thing and there was so much chemistry and connection, yet when we were apart it would fizzle out. Talking on the phone started to feel strained, and I felt myself trying too hard to keep the connection going. That’s when my healer at the time said to me, “If you have to grasp it, it was never yours…”
Love That Works
I always knew that I wanted to be in love, but I didn’t always know that I was deserving of love & could actually have it. Let me tell you a story, about myself. Before I was with John, I went through some pretty harrowing times in partnership. I dated men who had a shiny […]
Toxic People Happen
It’s not your fault that a difficult, abusive person came into your life. Abusive people happen. It’s unfortunate, but they do. Why abusive people came to be and what makes them behave so badly is a topic for another blog! Compassion for them is for another day as well. Today, my interest is in helping […]
3 Techniques to Cleanly and Happily Move On
There’s no doubt about it. Breakups, falling-outs with friends, and all types of endings are usually deeply painful experiences for all parties involved. Most of us avoid thinking about it until it happens to us, and then, bam! We are taken for an emotional roller coaster ride when the next ending presents itself. We find […]
Is Your Spiritual Energy Blocking Happiness?
In my healing practice I work with many conscious people who are looking to attract healthy relationships into their lives. They tend to instead attract repetitive dynamics that create confusion, sorrow, heartache, and painful endings. In virtually every one of these clients of mine, I notice some distortions in the use of their spiritual energy. […]
From Isolation to Unity – How Staying In Your Own Perspective Keeps You Stuck
Isolation is dangerous. The recent shootings in Las Vegas are a testament to that. When one person shuts off from others, and spirals into his own tortured mind, developing ideas of revenge and hostility, the result can be devastating. The white supremacist groups in the US are a testament to that. When individuals or groups […]